SUN - MERCURY Synastry in OPPOSITION Aspect
The importance of communication in relationships cannot be emphasised enough.
Without understanding of another person's point of view and the ability to communicate one's own thoughts and feelings a relationship can easily breakdown.
This is a difficult combination for communications in a relationship. SUN ( You ) and MERCURY ( Your Partner ) Opposition Aspect in Synastry Chart have difficulty understanding each other's point of view.
When the Sun and Mercury are in Opposition aspect between two people's charts, it can create both challenges and potential for growth in both romantic and friendship relationships. Here's how this aspect might influence..
In Your Friendship,
The two friends can learn a lot from each other, and they can help each other to grow and develop intellectually. However, they may also find it difficult to get along, and they may need to work hard to communicate effectively.
In Romance,
They cannot communicate their thoughts and feelings easily. Consequently SUN ( You ) and MERCURY ( Your Partner ) have trouble being together and a certain tension exists in the relationship. SUN ( You ) needs to be wary of having too much pride, of trying to override MERCURY ( Your Partner ) views through sheer force of personality.
SUN ( You ) takes a superior attitude to MERCURY ( Your Partner ), which proves detrimental in the long run. MERCURY ( Your Partner ) feels misunderstood, knowing that her ideas are so different to SUN ( You ). There is a danger that MERCURY ( Your Partner ) starts keeping her thoughts to herself thereby blocking any chance of communications improving.
As long as both SUN ( You ) and MERCURY ( Your Partner ) continue to try to overcome these obstacles then their union has a chance for success. They may find it of benefit to take time out and write down their thoughts and feelings during times of stress rather than speaking on the spur of the moment.
Aries
natives are some of the strongest people you will ever come across. But when they get heartbroken, they feel a lot of insecurity and despair in themselves. But they will never show it. Aries definitely have that bouncing ball quality and is full of optimism, and can simply go for what they want, so they won’t be wallflowers for too long. Related: Aries Personality: 15 Things You Need To Know About The Ram Sign
Taurus
people vehemently hate change, and always prefer staying in their comfort zone. It takes them quite some time to get used to the fact that they are single. So they need to mourn what is gone and then try to disentangle their intensely muddled feelings. Anger can morph into hatred and that is just as binding an emotion as love. Taurus dislikes their security being shaken, and although they appear placid, they can harbor dark thoughts that take a long time to eradicate. They need to jolt themselves onto a new forward track.
Gemini
is quite an egoistic and superficial sign, and they believe that the problem is in the one who broke up with them. And that they are entirely innocent. They will simply look for someone else, who is better than the last one, and worthier. Gemini always has options up its sleeve, so if one goes down, it’ll have several other ports of call in mind. Related: The Good and Bad of Loving A Gemini (13 Brutal Truths)
Cancer
hurts most of all since losing a beloved feels as if a part of themself has gone. Since they are insecure by nature, being vulnerable, and getting their heart broken causes them a lot of pain. They will constantly look back at their past, and wonder and obsess about what they could have done to prevent the breakup. It takes them a lot of time to process the breakup and move on from it. They need to toughen up and try to move on at all costs. Related: 7 Reasons Why Cancers are the Best Lovers In the Zodiac
Leo
will be nursing a bruised ego and dented pride, so will be fearful of a repeat experience. Since they are one of the proudest zodiac signs, they will prefer to hold their head up high and move on. In order to deal with broken hearts, they need to be brave and remind themselves how amazing and magnetic they are. Related: 5 Things You Need To Know If You Love A Leo 6. Virgo
Virgos
are very analytical by nature, and will probably know beforehand that a breakup is on the way. But they will never beg and cry for their partner to come back to them; they are too rational to do that. Rather, they would distract themselves and focus on practical matters to move on from the pain and heartbreak they are going through. Related: 12 Things to Know Before Dating a Virgo 7.
Libra
really is not happy without another half. They’ll be hurt but it will be mixed in with embarrassment at being humiliated in the eyes of their social circle. They are, however, masters at turning on the social charm even when wounded, so they won’t be left on their own for long.
Scorpio
loves intensely – and hates every bit as intensely. Their not-letting-go often involves vengeful thoughts. They feel that they have been betrayed, which makes it even more difficult for them to snap out of a heartbreak. If Scorpios understand that life is an enriching experience of deconstructing the past and reconstructing a different future through a series of deep transformations, it all becomes if not easier, then at least endurable.
Sagittarius
Even though Sagittarius is extremely independent, when they get their hearts broken, they will never show their pain. They are experts at hiding their sorrows. People belonging to this zodiac sign hate dwelling on what is already gone. Sagittarius will decide to go off traveling and will likely find a new sizzling romance in the next harbor. Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Sagittarius, The Fiery Archer Sign 10.
Capricorn
will sigh as if being rejected was what they expected and bury themselves in projects, overwork, and ambition, just to console themselves that they can at least make a success of that. In doing so, they risk shutting down their earthy magnetism. They should go in for a major pampering regime of massages, spas, and beauty treatments. If they keep their animal body happy, a new mate will appear as if by magic.
Aquarius
can hang around waiting for life to return to normal since they expect the world to adapt to them rather than the other way around. But patience won’t bring back what’s gone, so they need to make the effort to adapt to the changed circumstance of being single and make the most of it.
Pisces
will simply space out. If real life isn’t going to give them what they need, they’ll substitute it with their dream world where it’s always happily-ever-after. But they aren’t natural loners, so along the way, someone will take pity on them and swoosh them off into another romance. They are good at being in the right place at the right time, so new romance will happen with very little effort.
let's explore some possible side effects based on the elements of the zodiac signs:
Fire Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):
- Passionate Encounters: Sex with Fire signs can be intensely passionate and exhilarating, leaving you feeling energized and alive.
- Risk of Burnout: Fire signs' fiery nature can sometimes lead to burnout if not managed carefully. They might expect constant excitement and novelty, which could be exhausting.
Earth Signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):
- Sensual Experience: Earth signs tend to be grounded and sensual, so sex with them can be deeply satisfying and indulgent.
- Potential for Overindulgence: Earth signs may prioritize physical pleasures, which could lead to overindulgence if not balanced with emotional connection and intimacy.
Air Signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):
- Intellectual Stimulation: Sex with Air signs can be mentally stimulating, with plenty of communication and exchange of ideas.
- Emotional Detachment: Air signs might struggle with emotional intimacy at times, preferring to keep things light and detached, which could leave you feeling emotionally unfulfilled.
Water Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):
- Deep Emotional Connection: Water signs are known for their emotional depth, so sex with them can be profoundly intimate and soulful.
- Vulnerability and Intensity: Water signs may bring out intense emotions and vulnerability during sex, which can be both enriching and overwhelming.
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