Expert tip for Scorpio's verbal advantage
Relationships are often made or broken by one's conversational style. It's
not just what you say, but how you say it. In conversing, you Scorpios have
great power to heal people and situations; so use it wisely.
Deep and intense, you like your words to carry weight, to guide, change or
advise others. But when it's blunt, direct advising fails.
Be indirect, and avoid heavy-handed manipulation that can make you seem
threatening. The most effective talk tools for transforming others in
positive ways to include the following. Conversational allowing consists of
taking longer than usual pauses to provide the space for another to offer
his or her input.
Reflection is the process of repeating back a condensed version of what
another has said to confirm that you've understood. Interpretation is when
you offer your insights into the topic being discussed. Combine these
techniques with your uncanny Scorpio intuition and you can be more helpful
than most.
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